Thursday, 15 January 2015


Just Skyped mama! Happy me is happy. She's my best friend, whom I trust and love most. 



I feel so happy and uplifted each time I talk to her. There may be the sense of expectations from her in order for me to do better (but she only wants me to be happy most importantly). I never feel pressured in any ways when I talk to her- I can be myself- I don't have to feel like I'm forced to say or do something in order to please her. And I love that about family. About her.

The fact that she told me she felt lonely made me sad- so I immediately did what I could.

And ended up talking for so long cos I feel like I finally have someone whom I can pour my heart out to.

And you know what- it made me so feel much better! I love my mum. ❤💕

Sunday, 11 January 2015

Relationships Quotes and Insights.

Today I'm reminded: 
You can't just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships aren't great because they have no problems. They are great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work. 
One day, we will never have to say goodbye, only goodnight. And that happily ever after is the motivation why we hang on, no matter how painful our hearts feel at times.
Waiting is a sign of true love and patience. Anyone can say 'I love you', but not everyone can wait and prove it's true. 
Distance isn't for the fearful, it is for the bold. It is for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. 
They say: "You don't know what you've got till it's gone."
Truth: You knew exactly what you had; you just thought you'd never lose it. 

So hug your loved ones a little tighter everyday.

  Dear one, dear me:
Don't take people for granted. No matter how much they love you, people get tired eventually. 

For those who think you're not strong enough to quit an unhealthy relationship: 
It might hurt to walk away but that will never compare to the pain of staying. Don't let the fear of being alone, keep you in a relationship where you are alone.  
Learn to enjoy your own company. 

The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. 

~ Ernest Hemingway, Men Without

Assumption and lack of communication are the number one relationship killers. We all perceive differently. We've lived different lives, we have different views. Understand that before getting angry at someone for not believing what you believe.
I end today's post with a quote I like:
Love is a commitment to protecting another person's heart with the same passion you use to guard your own. 

~ Rob hill sr.